I haven't been selling sex toys all that long. I have had a lot of
fun doing it and have been making some good money from it. I have also
learned a lot from those that come to my sex toy parties. Here are a
few things I have learned:
There are still quite a few people that have hang ups about sex.
For
the most part, reactions have been favorable when I tell people about
what I do. However, I was quite surprised recently. One of my
colleagues from some other work that I do made a pronouncement to other
peers. She said that all those sex toys I sell and masturbating I do
makes me mean and evil. She further admonished by saying that people
only need to have sex the proper way i.e. within marriage and the man on
top. That makes me sad to think that a professional helping person is
so narrow minded. The human body is brilliantly designed and wired for
pleasure. The original intent was to ensure procreation of our
wonderful species. Alas, evolution being what it is we have gone on to
pursue sex for its own sake. The many health benefits of orgasm whether
by self-pleasuring or with a partner are well researched. Denying that
part of yourself doesn't allow you to grow as a human being.
People have a lot of questions about sex.
In
this day of information instantly available, it has shown me that the
human touch is still so important. Getting straight answers and
reassurance is what people want. My background as a professional
counselor helps people feel comfortable in confiding in me. I take that
privilege seriously and am proud that I can help someone out.
Women love to get together and talk about sex.
And
you thought is was just the guys! I've heard a lot of stories about
women and their sex toys. One told about how her husband got jealous
and broke her favorite toy. Many others have shared the names they have
given their toys. Others are eager to share how to use them to those
that are toy "virgins". I laugh and share along with all of them.
I have learned a lot and know I still have a lot left to learn.
Although
I have a certain expertise, I still learn a thing or two from my
clients. Learning is a life long process. When it comes to sex, I'd
like to think that this educator is also an apt pupil.
Sometimes you can tell too much.
Although
the sex toy party goers have fun learning and sharing together, every
now and then there is someone who tells a little more than they need to
share. The silence is deafening when that happens and can stop the
momentum of the party. Sex is still a private matter and a modicum of
discretion is necessary.
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